Introduction to the Pursuit of Passion

Many individuals find it challenging to strike a balance between pursuing their dreams and maintaining a steady, stable job. Given my background as an IT security engineer, I have faced unique demands, including being on call at odd times. Some might consider leaving the 9-5 job in favor of dedicating themselves entirely to their passions. However, the key lies in finding the right balance and making informed decisions based on personal circumstances.

The Decisive Factor: Passion and Dedication

For my husband, working two jobs has become an integral part of his life. His primary job is from Monday to Friday, whereas he dedicates weekends to his side hustles. This structure has its pros and cons; it's exhausting, but the lack of overlap between both jobs significantly eases the transition.

My experience was different. I attempted to balance a side hustle as a transcriptionist with a full-time job, but it proved challenging and unsustainable. The time and effort required didn't justify the financial return, so I had to quit after a few months.

Time blocking can be a lifesaver for those juggling multiple tasks. However, if your primary job involves being on call, you might need to scale back on your side hustle. Are there certain times when you are least likely to be interrupted? Can you automate some tasks to save time?

My Daughters-in-Law' Journey: A Time-Consuming But Passionate Pursuit

Observing my daughter-in-law's efforts with her side hustles is both inspiring and challenging. She and her partner grow wheatgrass in the basement and teach Reiki classes out of their house. While it is undeniably time-consuming, they love what they do, and it allows them to live their dream during evenings and weekends.

Despite being busy nearly every day, they willingly sacrifice their social lives for their passion. They have no plans to have children, choosing instead to focus on their side hustles. I, on the other hand, have accepted my role as a grandma to their dog, something I take great joy in.

The Cost of Earning Income

My journey in the real estate market also offers valuable insights. We owned a rental property that generated some extra income but required significant maintenance and upkeep. Although it cleared about 500 dollars a month, it was a costly endeavor. Our weekends and holidays were often spent on cleaning, fixing, and other maintenance tasks, which we eventually gave up to prioritize family time.

However, during a recession, that same property became a lifeline, providing extra income to keep food on the table. The lesson here is that there is always a cost to earning income, and you must decide how much you are willing to give up to sustain your side hustles.

Choosing Your Path

Every individual's path to success is unique. When I was in my 30s, I realized that money is not cheap; every dollar must be earned, and there is always a cost. You must be prepared to make sacrifices for the things you want, whether it's a social life or a family.

It's essential to consider the sacrifices you are willing to make for your side hustles. Are you willing to trade your free time for additional income? It's a difficult decision, but you must decide what is best for you. I believe that making choices and living your life on your terms is the hallmark of a fulfilled life.

Conclusion

In conclusion, balancing a side hustle with a 9-5 job is a complex endeavor. It requires dedication, sacrifice, and a realistic assessment of what you are willing to give up. By understanding the costs and benefits, you can make informed decisions that align with your personal goals and priorities. Remember, the pursuit of your dreams is ultimately a personal journey, and it is yours to make.